I *did* realise it before, I mean duh, i guess I'd just never had my own stuff as a case study before *g*. I was just vaguely thinking in terms of 'huh, other people get more feedback than me!'

I am, of course, talking about gen stories anyway. because johnslash? HAH!

I am SO not bitter. honestly! mainly because I'm in such good company with the folks who ship John too :D