All the site would let me do was apply to join the community, so I applied--anyway, some things that would be good to talk about:
* How to write your kink (even though it's too personal)
* How to write something that's the character's kink (even though it's not your kink)
* How to apply research without making your sex scene sound like a research paper
* How to write about orgasms without sounding stupid
* What to call genitals (hint: "throbbing love tower" is RIGHT OUT)