hmm. i'm unclear as to what you are specifically worried about. what would constitute putting yourself "at risk"? i think it's always advisable to be *mindful* - keeping an eye on your stuff, making sure you know how to get back home after a night out, not standing around looking "lost". but that would apply to men as well.

also, if you're feeling uncertain, this will almost certainly be transmitted through your body language, which might explain why you perceive how others are received differently.

b.x :)